i think this article speaks to those women. arguing that women would be much happier if they made the approach instead of waiting for the man to make the approach.
what i know now is that i don’t always respond too well to women who make the approach. and strangely enough if i made my approach women may not always respond too well to that. it’s all a case-by-case thing i suppose.
what would happen today if an aggressive woman comes to me? let’s be honest whether i had to approach or they approached there’s still a way to blow it. not that i’d want to or she would but success would have to be in the cards anyway.