i’ve started to realize sometimes i have little idea how to turn something in my direction. especially when speaking with women online on these dating sites.
if i move too fast the convo will go nowhere and i don’t get a date at all. if i don’t make any moves then i still get nothing especially if she won’t make a move. of course aggressive women are a different story altogether.
elise and i have been texting for a while and suggested we do lunch. well at this point we still haven’t gotten together. still working on her but we’re still having a casual convo with our smartphones.
jennifer – the plus sized girl getting her PhD – well i’m very tempted to ask if she dates at all. one problem she doesn’t live anywhere near chicago. i’m also very tempte d to offer to get her up closer to me for a day or so. a graduate student should have time to unwind in another part of the country. 😛
i have to figure out how to get comfortable enough with these women to move somthng forward into my direction. that direction could be anything to a relationship or sex. i haven’t had many role models and at that many guys my age are doing their thing on dating scene and also as married men with children.
i got to break through because i’m looking for that girl to squeeze and hopefully i can know fatherhood at least before i turn 40.